What should you do if your friend's partner makes a move on you? Love Island's Amber, Anna and Yewande have the answers

The Love Island trio are back and asking all the questions you were too scared to!

In this week’s episode of Yahoo UK’s new podcast Reality Check, they’re answering a range of listener questions relating to the girl code - the unwritten and often unspoken set of ethical rules that exist between a girl and her best friends.

So, should you ever tell your friend if her boyfriend makes a move on you?

The girls dive in.

Anna, 29, said: “Why would you not say?”

Scientist Yewande, 25, added: “When you tell her and you explain what happened, she should trust you, you’re her friend.”

“I wouldn’t want to lie to your friend, I’d just want to say, look this is what’s been going on,” Love Island winner, Amber, 22 added.

LONDON, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 18: (Embargoed until 09:00 on 2nd Dec 2019) (L-R) Yewande Biala, Anna Vakili and Amber Rose Gill during the "Reality Check" podcast photocall at MidCity Place on November 18, 2019 in London, England. (Photo by Milly Grange-Bennett/Getty Images for Yahoo)
Yewande Biala, Anna Vakili and Amber Rose Gill answer listeners questions in their new podcast, Reality Check (Photo by Milly Grange-Bennett/Getty Images for Yahoo)

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Anna, 29, interjected: “And if she hears it from someone else, then it’s a different story and it’s worse - it looks like you’re doing something behind her back.”

Yewande was pretty firm.

“If your man hit on me and I didn’t tell you, that’s betrayal! Imagine, I hide that from you and you stay in a relationship with that person” she exclaimed.

Love Island winner Amber Gill (Photo: Grant Pollard/Invision/AP)
Love Island winner Amber Gill (Photo: Grant Pollard/Invision/AP)

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Anna shouted: “That’s cheating!”

To which Yewande admitted: “I would cut you off straight away!”

“I can’t believe there are people who just don’t say,” Anna added.

“That’s absolutely a big rule in the girl code book - tell your friend if their guy hits on you, even if he tells you something really flirty. I’d tell you straight,” Yewande conceded.

Finally, Anna chirped in: “I keep saying men are trash, no one ever understands.”

That’s the reality check we needed.

In the rest of the episode the trio respond to listener questions exploring one-sided friendships, feeling insecure and competitive in relation to your female friends, and if it’s ever ok to date, or even be friends with, a friend’s ex.

You can listen to the full first episode of Reality Check on Spotify and iTunes, and follow the Reality Check Instagram for all the latest news and updates.

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